Social Networks cause Cyberbully Among Teenager

19 February 2012

Guys, i've alot of essay project so here's one of my project.
its about cyber bullying, well, i think i'll support this too, as i support the Stop Child Abuse, i still work on that community too, so here's my project and my sympathy to whoever who already experience it..
so here it is, enjoy xx

Social Network is a social structure, where you could have a fast communication with eachother, no matter what a distance come between you and them, this work cause the globalitation which has already worldwide in every part of this world, not only a communication but information too, we could have such a fast information by searching the things you wanna know on google, or people usually said “googling” or “google it”. But as usual, there’s another cause that we can receive by this kind of globalization thingy, not only the good cause, but the bad cause too. So, here’s the thing that I choose for the example : “Time is money” “Speed is good”, now, let see. Time is money, but when you see this quotes as a wrong way of life, don’t you even realized how far your communication with you mom, your dad, and your family, all that you keep paying attention is only your cellphone, even you don’t know him/her yet, at the social network, you still choose them than your family who wanted to talk with you, so, it makes distance between you and your closest people, and now, If speed is good, why people who ride their car on a crazy limit, often went “home” early? Don’t you think a wrong information from bad source which spread fast, and make people understand the wrong things, see the wrong things and know the wrong things? Is that you could call it good? That’s when we already being trapped with the problems we got online, its hard to being ignored and being erased of. Why? Because the connection between one and eachother is fast as possible, so you couldn’t stop it, it’s so hard to stop the connection between one and another, so, that’s why I choose this topic, about social netwok cause cyberbully among teenager, I usually heard a lot of news who discuss about a death of teenagers because of the social networks. Why it could be happen to the teenagers? Because teenagers it’s a time where we are going to be adult, or pre-adult, means that we still couldn’t control ourself, our feelings, and our emotion, so when we got something bad happen to ourself, we still couldn’t solve it with an opened mine, and when it become too much, it could cause death, and, why cyberbullying doesn’t attack old people? Because they are old-fashioned they don’t understand how to use the social network. Why cybercully could happen? so when the rumors already spread once in the social network it could be spread as fast as you can not think, and the rumor will get a different response too, when the rumor is good, of course you will get a good respond and if that’s a bad rumor, of course you’ll get a bad rumor, and sometimes there’s such thing as a “too much” judge for the bad rumors, and I called it as a cyberbullying, what’s cyberbullying? What’s the different between cyberbullying with bullying? Cyber bullying it’s a bullying over the social network, it attacks mental not physical, but it will soon can attack mental too, but, if bullying, well you do a physical contact with them. How cyberbullying could happen? Well it because of some people who don’t use it properly or use it wisely, internet could be the friends of ours if we could use it properly and positively, other side it can became our enemies when we don’t use it carefully. What’s the cause of cyber bullying? It can cause a disorder, illness, down mental, stressed, trauma or even death, it needs a long time to cure it, but however it still leaves a scar. Why its so easy to have a cyberbullying than bullying? Well, because not a lot of old people who could look after us at the social network, and the people we don’t know they yet, and they don’t know us too, where it can cause a misunderstanding or even worst, so that’s why it’s so easy to have a cyberbullying. What’s your conclusion? For me, social network and globalization isn’t as bad as we think, but it depends on how we’ll face it, and how we’ll use it, so yeah, social network can cause cyberbullying, but it’s our choice how we will use it, but for our generation, why we don’t make a differences by post and share something positive to the world?

By : Jeane Cyrilla Pavitta K.

thanks for reading :*